SetFree: What happens after BreakUp?

She lost everything. Even herself. She had nothing to lose. That's when she became fearless. Because she had nothing. She started gaining her confidence slowly and steadily. She started to smile again. 

She started being happy from within and that's the point when she started to join the broken pieces. Though she did build a wall around her heart, so that no one could enter. But she was getting better with time. Because she knew he wouldn't come back. She was fallen apart. But she was rebuilding herself. 

She knew letting him go will be the difficult but holding on would hurt her way more so she decided to let him go. She started to forget him just like another chapter of life which taught her a lesson. The lesson she would never forget. With time she gradually grew her spirit and  gained confidence. She thought that her smile won't come back but gradually it did.

 Eventually she started to forget him, yet there was a soft corner for him in her heart. Broken in pieces made her believe that this was "the end" but she didn't knew it was just a beginning of a new sunshine. With time she accepted the fact that she can do nothing once a person decides to leave. Holding those emotions made her heart ache. Though it was the hardest truth she learnt. But we all know Rainbows come only after the storms.
And sometimes all the good things have to fall apart so that better things can come in.

Moving on was the best decision she made because she later realised he wasn't worth her tears.

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